Assess the situation

An objective analysis of your health, medical coverage, emotional state and other commitments will help you figure out how much you can and cannot do yourself, and what type of outside support will be needed to ensure your loved one’s health and safety.

Write down your assessment of:

• Your loved one’s ability to function independently, both physically and mentally.
• The accessibility and adaptability of your home or physical environment.
• Your own health and physical abilities.
• Your other responsibilities at work, at home, and in the community.
• The availability of family and friends to share the care.
• Your financial resources, including insurance coverage.
• End-of-life preparation for you and your loved one.

A written document helps to avoid neglecting important issues. Review and update these observations periodically to help you determine if you need to make changes along the way.